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I see that you are wondering about traits and behaviors – could they be related to neurodivergence? Could you or your partner be autistic (Asperger’s)? What does that even look like in an adult? If you’ve been to therapy, it has probably been unproductive – or even made things worse. I’ve heard this a lot and I’ve lived it too!
Based on your responses, I believe the options below will benefit you the most.
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Does your partner have neurodivergent traits that are similar to others who are diagnosed with autism?
This 10-question assessment is based on the Autism Quotient – 10 (AQ-10). Scores of 6 or above indicate traits in common with other men and women diagnosed as Autistic or Asperger’s.
This is a free assessment.TAKE THE AUTIST TRAIT ASSESSMENT – PARTNER RATING
What are your own neurodivergent traits that are similar to others who are diagnosed with autism?
This 10-question assessment is also based on the Autism Quotient – 10 (AQ-10). Scores of 6 or above indicate traits in common with other men and women diagnosed as Autistic or Asperger’s.
This is a free assessment.TAKE THE AUTIST TRAIT ASSESSMENT – SELF RATING
A private consultation may not be of interest to you right now or may be outside of your budget. If your circumstances change, a consultation will provide extensive clarity and feedback for you. We will explore your challenges, needs, and goals. A consultation can be a single, stand-alone meeting with me or the starting point for ongoing coaching. Private consultations are for individuals or couples.
1-hour or 2-hour consultations are available on Zoom. The hourly rate for consultations is $200/hour USD.
Coaching may not be in your budget or it may not suit your needs at the moment. On-going coaching can be for just a session or two, or on-going for weeks and even years. Many people budget by scheduling a coaching appointment with me every few months.
If your situation and needs change, my private coaching rate is $200/hour USD.
An initial consultation is required before beginning coaching and is subject to availability.BOOK A CONSULTATION NOW
I have many supplemental resources for individuals and couples who are eager to learn more about themselves, their partners, and about their relationships.
Join my private Facebook group and interact with men and women who are neurotypical and neurodivergent. This supportive group is a safe space to ask your most personal questions and to share your own experience and perspective. We keep the group respectful and supportive.COME JOIN US ON FACEBOOK
This podcast is one of the world’s first podcasts focused on partner relationships with guests who are neurotypical and neurodivergent, living in their own neurodiverse relationships. Other guests include other top professionals who talk with me about their own neurodiverse relationships and their work to help people like you.VISIT THE PODCAST CHANNEL
My channel (@jodicarlton) has hundreds of videos about neurodiverse traits and characteristics in men and women, as well as the biggest challenges faced by neurodiverse couples and individual partners.
Listen to recorded Q & A, but also video education and tips for your relationship.VISIT AND SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL
Mastering the Path To Peace
Dramatically decrease the frequency and intensity of disagreements and conflict with your partner.
Crack the Communication Code
Communication program designed to bridge the gap between partners who have different ways of thinking.
Is Your Partner Autistic or Toxic?
Neurodivergent partners can be mistaken for narcissists. This multi-module course will help you get clarity.
WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING
Your advice is already paying dividends. Thank you so much!
Her testing is spot on. The clarity that it offers and its communication direction are impeccable. Her program is vastly different and you will find success working with her.
COMMUNICATION WORKSHOP PARTICIPANT
My take on the class is that it revealed all the “Junk” I bring to the equation including how I hyper-interpret everything that happens and how ultimately his intentions are good and loving.
Thank you for what you do and for what this intensive coaching has done for me as a person. I had no idea this kind of personal growth would come out of “relationship” coaching.
Now I feel like there is hope!
Thank you, Jodi, for helping me as a woman on the spectrum.
This described my partner perfectly. It’s like you know him Jodi! Thank you…it helps me understand him more.
PODCAST & YOUTUBE FOLLOWER
Thank you so much you have no idea how much I appreciate your videos! It helps me to have a better understanding. He’s undiagnosed but you have described him perfectly.
It feels like you have met my husband. We’ve been married 31 years and it’s hard work.
This explains sososososososo much. Oh my goodness, it’s like someone threw me a life preserver.
ABOUT ME, JODI CARLTON, MEd
I have over 20 years of combined experience as a therapist, educator, speaker, and coach. As a professor, I enjoyed inspiring curiosity in psychology students about human drives and motivation. I have worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and families worldwide in over 13 countries with challenges such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, abuse, and brain injury. In the early 2000’s, I developed a counseling program in Dublin, Ireland for the The National Brain Injury Association.
As a leading expert in neurodiverse relationship dynamics, I have helped countless teenagers, parents, adults, and couples to understand brain differences in language, emotions, sensory processing, and behavior.
For me, neurodiversity is personal. My experience comes primarily from my own personal relationships: my 19-year marriage, other romantic partners, my children, other family members, and my closest friends.
I am also a survivor of narcissistic abuse and have spent years recovering from codependency (“pathological kindness”) that developed in my childhood.
Someone once told me, “I can’t imagine the number of people you help because of your own experiences,” and that is my exact mission – to reach and guide you through your own journey of discovery and healing.