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I see that you are wondering about traits and behaviors – could they be related to neurodivergence?  Could it be autism (Asperger’s)?  What does that even look like in an adult?

Your relationship has a lot of intense conflict and isn’t a safe place to be vulnerable. If you’ve been to therapy, it may have made things worse.

Based on your responses, I believe the options below will benefit you the most.

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Does your partner have neurodivergent traits that are similar to others who are diagnosed with autism?

Maybe your partner’s personality is something different that is more toxic and destructive.

It is very common for autistic individuals to be mistaken for narcissists, but also for partners to believe narcissistic traits are related to autism. It is important. for you to get clarity! Your relationship potential is very different for each of these.

This custom assessment is specifically designed to identify autistic traits, narcissistic traits, and borderline personality traits – many autistic women are misdiagnosed as with borderline personality disorder.

This is a free assessment.

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I have created for you the world’s first course that specifically identifies the difference between a neurodivergent and a narcissistic partner.

This course is essential if you aren’t sure which kind of partner you have.

*All courses are “Pay What You Can Afford.

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A private consultation with me will provide extensive clarity and feedback about your partner’s traits and your relationship.  We will explore your challenges, needs, and goals. A consultation can be a single, stand-alone meeting with me or can be the starting point for ongoing coaching. You can meet with me on your own or with your partner if they are willing.

This consultation is helpful for people who have not had prior therapy or coaching but also for individuals who already have their own therapist and need the expertise and perspective that I can provide about neurodivergence. 

1-hour or 2-hour consultations are available on Zoom.

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I typically see private coaching clients once or twice per month. There is no long-term commitment – some people work with me for a month or two, and others work with me for a few years, off and on, as their lives evolve.

An initial consultation is required before beginning coaching.

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I have many supplemental resources for individuals and couples who are eager to learn more about themselves, their partners, and about their relationships.

PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP

Join my private Facebook group and interact with men and women who are neurotypical and neurodivergent.  This supportive group is a safe space to ask your most personal questions and to share your own experience and perspective.  We keep the group respectful and supportive.

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YOUR NEURODIVERSE RELATIONSHIP PODCAST

This podcast is one of the world’s first podcasts focused on partner relationships with guests who are neurotypical and neurodivergent, living in their own neurodiverse relationships.  Other guests include other top professionals who talk with me about their own neurodiverse relationships and their work to help people like you.

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YOUTUBE CHANNEL

My channel (@jodicarlton) has hundreds of videos about neurodiverse traits and characteristics in men and women, as well as the biggest challenges faced by neurodiverse couples and individual partners.

Listen to recorded Q & A, but also video education and tips for your relationship.

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COURSES ALSO AVAILABLE TO YOU

Mastering the Path To Peace

Dramatically decrease the frequency and intensity of disagreements and conflict with your partner.

Crack the Communication Code

Communication program designed to bridge the gap between partners who have different ways of thinking.

Is Your Partner Autistic or Toxic?

Neurodivergent partners can be mistaken for narcissists. This multi-module course will help you get clarity.

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ABOUT ME, JODI CARLTON, MEd

I have over 20 years of combined experience as a therapist, educator, speaker, and coach. As a professor, I enjoyed inspiring curiosity in psychology students about human drives and motivation. I have worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and families worldwide in over 13 countries with challenges such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, abuse, and brain injury. In the early 2000’s, I developed a counseling program in Dublin, Ireland for the The National Brain Injury Association.

As a leading expert in neurodiverse relationship dynamics, I have helped countless teenagers, parents, adults, and couples to understand brain differences in language, emotions, sensory processing, and behavior.

For me, neurodiversity is personal. My experience comes primarily from my own personal relationships: my 19-year marriage, other romantic partners, my children, other family members, and my closest friends.

I am also a survivor of narcissistic abuse and have spent years recovering from codependency (“pathological kindness”) that developed in my childhood.

Someone once told me, “I can’t imagine the number of people you help because of your own experiences,” and that is my exact mission – to reach and guide you through your own journey of discovery and healing.

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